My sister Peggy sent me this picture with the inspiration that sometimes our heart is pierced in pain from one of life's many tragedies. Sometimes when this happens you may throw up a fence in self defence. Isn't that true! I can't tell you how many times when I was young and dating, trying so hard to catch Mr. Right i.e. Samuel that I found myself throwing up a fence. I just wasn't sure who I was. I was sure about who I wanted to be but I was still just developing into that person. I find I still throw up a fence now and then. I'm not sure that it is either bad or good, but I think that we do have to be careful and be willing to take them down just as fast.