What comes out of your mouth? This little maneuver is really quite difficult, just like kind words sometimes can be. It is best to just live by the advise that Thumper’s mommy gave, “if you can’t say somethin’ nice, don’t say nothin’ at all.” I also say, speak as if the person you are speaking about is right there in the same room with you or imagine that your grandmother is there listening. I would have never said anything bad in front of my saintly grandmothers. Most of all be nice in word and deed.
Just in case you can't find the hearts, Look at Jenny's teeth in the upper left picture and then I think the other one is obvious, right? (Pictured is my daughter JennyLynn)